Nope, I'm not preggie... juz sharing my thoughts. Y do u have no 2? Do u :-
1. Sincerly love children
2. Juz for the sake of having children
3. Under Pressure
4. Because everyone else around is pregnant
5. To provide a playmate/companion for ur first born
Hmmm... I guess there are many other reasons, but I can only think of these few reasons. For me, its gotta be reason 5. I don't know, actually, I'm pretty happy with juz Meia. But I don't want her to land up like me, an only child. Not saying an only child is no good, but I know how lonely it can get at times. I'm fortunate to have a caring n loving grandma who saw to my needs while my parents worked. I can say that despite having friends near me, I am still very much, a LONER... There are pros n cons abt being an only child. For one, I'm very thankful to my parents for providing me everything that I asked for. Even forcing my mom to let me have Piano lessons. Well, we were not wealthy at all, but she managed to scrimp n save for my $1,400 30 yr old Kawai piano. That was alot of money then and thankfully I didn't let her money go to waste. I was a distinction student, skipped a couple of grades along the way (this is something I'm very proud off, n probaly the only thing in my 33yrs of life I can boast abt haha, do my apologies, do bear with me).
Okie back to the topic. Having only Meia allows me to throw all my effort, love, care, sweat, money etc solely on her. She has our undivided attention. But then again y do I want No. 2? Simply, I don't want her to be all alone in this world when hb n I go meet our maker... yes, she'll marry (I hope to a very good, decent n dependable man, else even if I die, I'll haunt him if he ever ill treats my darling), but what ifs???? If I'm able to give her either a sister or a brother, she has someone to 'pour' her heart out (other than me lah), n if I'm gone, n hb too... if her hb's bad, she has a sibling to run too... Am I thinking too much here??? I always have lotsa nonsensical stuff in my head...
I cherish my little buttercup very much, I love her to bits, words cannot describe a mother's love....
So for u my little cupcake... mommy's gonna try for either a sister or a brother... meanwhile, juz to let u know I am truly thankful n grateful for having u as my Daughter.
Love U.